Let’s be honest about this – the world is only just at a point where we can sit and talk openly about sex and in spite of this, there are still taboo subjects such as gay dating (twink dating, bear dating, etc.), lesbian dating, extreme sex, and transgender.
In a world where we are encouraged to be open about our sexuality, there are still certain subjects not addressed and if you are someone that considers themselves to be a “twink gay single”, you will probably have already noticed that there is very little information about it on the internet.
Let’s face facts here – there are the facts that everyone THINKS is true, and then there are the cold hard facts. Rather than concern ourselves with fluff and trash, let’s just get to the heart of the matter.
What are Twinks?
Twinks are gay men that are very rarely over the age of 30. They are normally of a very slender build, tall and think in makeup, and have very delicate features. Think tall and lanky, if you like.
As far as stereotypes go, the twink is pretty much the ‘typical’ gay man – more than a little camp and definitely in touch with their feminine side. Older gay ‘bears’ love this young, slender babes, and although the younger guys may have only recently come out in the gay community, they aren’t afraid to shout about what it is they want, and when they want it.
What’s a Classic “Twink” Example?
OK so we know he’s not gay but if there was ever someone that COULD pass for a twink, Zac Efron would be it – tall, slim (but beautifully muscly), and with that floppy brown hair that frames his small face with rather petite features.
Why are Twink Dating Websites Smart?
Let’s be honest – twinks aren’t everyone’s cup of tea. Don’t take offence to that – some guys like blondes, some guys like brunettes, some guys like bigger guys, some guys like thinner guys… It’s a personal preference thing.
If you consider yourself to be a twink, why not join a website where bears and twinks are looking for guys just like you? There’s no point in wasting your time on regular gay dating websites when you have that special something that someone special wants on a website that is specified for your needs!
Just Because He’s Gay, Doesn’t Mean You’ll Hit It Off!
This is one of the most frustrating things for any gay man to deal with. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a twink, a bear, or just a run-of-the-mill ‘regular’ gay guy, hearing someone say those words to you – “Hi, I’ll set you up with Peter! He’s gay too!” just fills you with dread, right?
Just because two people are gay, doesn’t mean you’re going to hit it off. Do you know what that means? It means that you’re going to face rejection here just like you are with other gay dating sites. It’s not because you’re a twink, it’s because he doesn’t click with you.
